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Wednesday, June 27, 2007

What Makes a Man Cheat.....

One of the most painful experiences one undergoes in life is discovering your boyfriend or husband is a cheating guy. It becomes even more painful if you strongly care about, or deeply love, him.
What is "Cheating"? Cheating to some people may be simple glances at a good looking woman as she walks down the street or thinking about that sexy looking number that is displayed on the calendar or thinking ‘if only I am single’. Statistics show that, 22% of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives, 70% of married women did not know of their spouses' extramarital activity, while another 3% of married women reported having sex with someone other than their spouse. So why do men cheat? We first need to understand as to what is the normal behavior for a man. Can we get upset when a man enjoys a little flirtatious behavior or remarks on the good looks of a gorgeous woman if the act or comment hardly bears any substance? An innocent action that in no way impacts the way a man feels about his partner is harmless, it is how much he is and can be trusted to draw the line that matters. Some guys are just born to cheat and it is in their very nature to sample what is there to offer.

One of the most important factors that determines the difference between a good and bad man regarding fidelity is to take a look at his parents. Did he come from a loving family? Good breeding for me is the most important. It is a well known fact that children learn by example, even if it is subconscious. It is so important for women to understand that if a guy cheats on a woman, there is a very good possibility he will cheat on you. Men always have good reasons for cheating, so ladies, do yourself a favor and pass up the bad cheating guys for the good faithful guys. He may not always be as exciting and dangerous, but love and trust always outweighs danger and excitement in the long run. There is an old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true.

Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down. Another possibility why men cheat is You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something. He’s fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get. Your sex life sucks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn’t getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from getting boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.

Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above mention or even be a combination of a few different reasons. Nevertheless, no reason is good enough reason to lie and be dishonest. After all, Karma can be a DRAG!.


Blogger ß£åÇkFè£îñè said...

tell me if I'm getting yr message wrong Brew...
you're for cheating?
You have to cheat coz you have all the reasons that right?
why must you cheat?
can't get out of the marriage?
there are reasons you hang in there and sulk?
so cheating becomes a consolation?
enlighten me plz...tq

7:53 AM  
Blogger Brew808 said...

I am just relating why men cheat. I'm not in favor about it. As a matter of fact if we cheat we are just fooling ourselves. It's a macro point of view. If you noticed in my last paragraph it says "Nevertheless, no reason is good enough reason to lie and be dishonest".

7:27 PM  

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