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Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Older Women, Younger Men......

Age is a state of mind. Women in their 40's are far from old, some in good shape and some starting families for the first time or opening a new chapter of their lives. I am an example who in my teens dated and went on relationships, some escapades with older women (un-married, nor divorced). I just felt I could communicate better with them compared to women younger than me. But my family disapproved of my relationships with older women. I’ve always liked pretty women regardless of their age, not in the teens nor mid 20’s.
On the other hand, the question arises, “Why do Older Women Prefer Younger Men? Who are these women? These are the women who were discouraged by what they considered unacceptable choices for a lifetime mate and refused to settle for second best, Instead they chose to remain single and invest in their own development and careers.
Women prefer younger men for the flexibility and sense of adventure of their more spontaneous, younger companions, For their part, younger men often find older women more interesting, experimental, fun to talk to, financially settled, and more adept sexually. Then there are those who remained in unsatisfying marriages for the sake of convenience; furthering careers or raising children, and are now divorced. Most of these women have decided that age will not prevent them from enjoying satisfying lives. And thanks to the numerous varieties of beauty products and healthcare treatments available today, some of these women are presenting stiff competition to some younger women in the market for romantic partners. Some men on the dating scene admit it is becoming increasingly difficult to determine the true age of these foxy ladies. Sometimes it’s unbelievable when they tell you their age. There are consequences and some maybe: He will leave her for a younger woman or in some cases, the man wanted children," she says no, "and the relationship falls apart because of that. You do not want to play 'mommy' or caretaker to your lover do you! Issues will eventually destroy any relationship no matter what the age difference. If the younger man can handle his own life his job education emotional needs is healthy and searching then he makes a great partner no matter what the age difference and how long the relationship lasts. With a large age difference, most younger men will move on to someone in their own age group, or younger, as the years go by like what i did.
Also part of the reason older women are attracted to younger men is because they are often free of too much bitterness towards past relationships, they tend to (not always) be more sexually enthusiastic and interested, and they tend to be, at least here in the U.S. more comfortable with stronger women . Older women are not running after marriage or children, and if that’s something they want, and we can have a meaningful relationship Well. that causes conflict, and I don’t want to stand in anyone’s way when it comes to fulfilling their life goals. Even if the relationship is based on mutual sexual interest, well, I don’t know about everyone else, but I sure like a little lovin’ while I’m screwing. The quality of human relationships should always boil down to the love. I don’t care if it lasts five minutes or a lifetime, there’s simply too much abuse and hatred in the world to add more to it.
If after experimentation a man is convinced he is getting exactly what he wants from a relationship, would he be more likely to commit to that relationship or would he seek others?
When you come right down to it, COMPATIBILITY is what makes relationships work regardless of age differences.

4 Comments:

Blogger LiNaLaNi said...

think of it this way, it doesnt matter how long you have with him/her, just make the most of it...if he/she is worth it...its better than having nothing at all.

if ure 50 and she is 70...the numbers wont mean much now would it:D

my two cents worth:-)

3:16 AM  
Blogger Brew808 said...

Hi Sorry for not responding sooner. I was out of the country. I totally agree, make the most out of it. If you read closely, I was in that predicament as well and I did make the most of it and it was awesome. Age is just a number. I was jsut relating things that are facts and happening. Thats all. Your 2 cents was worth it :)

7:09 PM  
Blogger Ice said...

well Brew...younger men , older women...how many times have I been in that situation? too many...
I find it's only good while it lasts..
It is like looking after another child and it gets boring after sometime...
Better to be by myself and live life coz older men have more probs...:p

9:39 PM  
Blogger Brew808 said...

I agree. But older men also are more patient than younger men. But in a relationship I truly believe the man should make the relationship. But what happens is, so many men nowadays are jsut there for the booty call, and not relationships. I don't blame you. But one day there will come a man who will live up to your expectations. Don't lose hope for all you women. :)

6:36 PM  

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